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Constant yoga practice…not so easy sometimes…

June 27, 2010

In the Hatha Yoga Pradipika , the sage author Svatmarama shares the following wisdom: Anyone who practices can obtain success in yoga but not one who is lazy.  Constant practice alone is the secret of success. As I contemplate this verse I realize that lately I’ve been “lazy” in my yoga practice in many ways.  As much as I love practicing yoga and am grateful for the way it makes me feel when I do practice regularly, it seems like right now I can’t even remember the last time I rolled out my mat.  Last week?  The week before?  Last month?!?  No clue?  What the heck happened? Well, with even the tiniest amount of contemplation, I clearly see that I’ve lost awareness and connection to a constant daily practice.  I’ve been lazy and allowed life in general, both the big and small things, to draw my focus away from the simple habit of unrolling the mat every single day . In spite of the fact that work has been insanely busy and I’m now in the midst of moving myself and family to the other side of the world (Japan, to be specific…read more below if you wish), I’ve let myself slip away from the daily habit of simply unrolling my yoga mat. This is the magic trick–unrolling the mat–that I use to make it easier to maintain a consistent practice. Looks like I’m going to have to pull this one out of the bag again. Consistency requires overcoming both physical and mental laziness. Sometimes we avoid practice because our bodies feel too tired.  It’s just a lot easier sometimes to stay in bed for a couple more hours or indulge in a marathon session of reality TV or surf the Internet to the break of dawn.  Before we know it, these indulgences quickly become patterns and habits that pull us away from constant practice.  Mental laziness also pulls us in this direction even though we know how much better we feel with even the slightest amount of yoga practice.  There’s nothing really wrong about enjoying a marathon TV session or sleeping in, but most of the time these are just lazy decisions that we make as we chug along the path of least resistance. Yet, any yoga practitioner knows that resistance is the key to success. We know we’re stretching our hamstrings when we feel them resisting our effort to touch our toes.  Resistance helps us grow .  But what really fertilizes our growth is how we approach the resistance. Here are  two keys to help avoid getting bogged down in the life of laziness and least resistance: 1. Increase daily mindfulness. 2. Use that mindfulness to choose good habits. Really quite simple.  For me, getting back in the habit of a daily yoga practice requires one thing:  Mindfully unrolling my yoga mat every single day. If I remember that one simple action, somehow I can’t help but practice at least a little bit and win the battle over laziness. …read further if you so desire…or stop here if you could care less…since I sort of feel like getting more personal tonight… Anyhow, like I said, life has been in a state of constant commotion for a while now.  My little family has lived in the Florida panhandle for almost three years now, but now we’re headed to Japan for three years of adventure. Just this week we basically said goodbye to nearly everything we own as the movers drove away with 10+ crates full of creature comforts.  Hopefully the slow boat to the other side of the world moves quickly since I’m already missing my Manduka Black Mat Pro .  Isn’t that just the way it is though, I’ve hardly used it for the last two months and now all I want is what I can’t have.  Life has been nothing short of exhausting as we’ve had movers in and out of the house for nearly two weeks, and now we’re finally moved out of the house and living out of suitcases until we skip town early next month. It’s gonna be a long flight with a 5 1/2 year old and 20 month old.  Wish me luck:) I’m certainly going to miss the beautiful white sand beaches of the Florida Emerald Coast.  Even though I’ve only lived here a few years, I feel a real connection to the area, which has made the BP oil disaster feel like a dagger in the heart.  I sort of feel the same way about this catastrophe as I did right after 9-11.  Depressed, uncertain, worried, helpless, perplexed.  Honestly, for the most part, the spill has zero impact on my personal life, but this is one of those rare events that truly brings into focus both the frailty and interconnectedness of our existence.  I nearly cried when I saw tar balls rolling onto the beaches only minutes from where I live.  One can only imagine the long-term environmental and financial devastation this region will have to endure for the next few years as the tourists go elsewhere and the fishermen dock their boats.  It’s sad, but we will overcome this. Anyhow, many thanks for reading my little yoga blog here.  I know I’ve been a bit out of the blogging scene lately, but I really appreciate all the comments and feedback I continue to receive on both old and new posts.  I’m amazed and happy when I hear that others find useful information in something I posted long, long ago.  Just remember to keep unrolling those mats….  Namaste! Filed under: yoga

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Constant yoga practice…not so easy sometimes…

June 27, 2010

In the Hatha Yoga Pradipika , the sage author Svatmarama shares the following wisdom: Anyone who practices can obtain success in yoga but not one who is lazy.  Constant practice alone is the secret of success. As I contemplate this verse I realize that lately I’ve been “lazy” in my yoga practice in many ways.  As much as I love practicing yoga and am grateful for the way it makes me feel when I do practice regularly, it seems like right now I can’t even remember the last time I rolled out my mat.  Last week?  The week before?  Last month?!?  No clue?  What the heck happened? Well, with even the tiniest amount of contemplation, I clearly see that I’ve lost awareness and connection to a constant daily practice.  I’ve been lazy and allowed life in general, both the big and small things, to draw my focus away from the simple habit of unrolling the mat every single day . In spite of the fact that work has been insanely busy and I’m now in the midst of moving myself and family to the other side of the world (Japan, to be specific…read more below if you wish), I’ve let myself slip away from the daily habit of simply unrolling my yoga mat. This is the magic trick–unrolling the mat–that I use to make it easier to maintain a consistent practice. Looks like I’m going to have to pull this one out of the bag again. Consistency requires overcoming both physical and mental laziness. Sometimes we avoid practice because our bodies feel too tired.  It’s just a lot easier sometimes to stay in bed for a couple more hours or indulge in a marathon session of reality TV or surf the Internet to the break of dawn.  Before we know it, these indulgences quickly become patterns and habits that pull us away from constant practice.  Mental laziness also pulls us in this direction even though we know how much better we feel with even the slightest amount of yoga practice.  There’s nothing really wrong about enjoying a marathon TV session or sleeping in, but most of the time these are just lazy decisions that we make as we chug along the path of least resistance. Yet, any yoga practitioner knows that resistance is the key to success. We know we’re stretching our hamstrings when we feel them resisting our effort to touch our toes.  Resistance helps us grow .  But what really fertilizes our growth is how we approach the resistance. Here are  two keys to help avoid getting bogged down in the life of laziness and least resistance: 1. Increase daily mindfulness. 2. Use that mindfulness to choose good habits. Really quite simple.  For me, getting back in the habit of a daily yoga practice requires one thing:  Mindfully unrolling my yoga mat every single day. If I remember that one simple action, somehow I can’t help but practice at least a little bit and win the battle over laziness. …read further if you so desire…or stop here if you could care less…since I sort of feel like getting more personal tonight… Anyhow, like I said, life has been in a state of constant commotion for a while now.  My little family has lived in the Florida panhandle for almost three years now, but now we’re headed to Japan for three years of adventure. Just this week we basically said goodbye to nearly everything we own as the movers drove away with 10+ crates full of creature comforts.  Hopefully the slow boat to the other side of the world moves quickly since I’m already missing my Manduka Black Mat Pro .  Isn’t that just the way it is though, I’ve hardly used it for the last two months and now all I want is what I can’t have.  Life has been nothing short of exhausting as we’ve had movers in and out of the house for nearly two weeks, and now we’re finally moved out of the house and living out of suitcases until we skip town early next month. It’s gonna be a long flight with a 5 1/2 year old and 20 month old.  Wish me luck:) I’m certainly going to miss the beautiful white sand beaches of the Florida Emerald Coast.  Even though I’ve only lived here a few years, I feel a real connection to the area, which has made the BP oil disaster feel like a dagger in the heart.  I sort of feel the same way about this catastrophe as I did right after 9-11.  Depressed, uncertain, worried, helpless, perplexed.  Honestly, for the most part, the spill has zero impact on my personal life, but this is one of those rare events that truly brings into focus both the frailty and interconnectedness of our existence.  I nearly cried when I saw tar balls rolling onto the beaches only minutes from where I live.  One can only imagine the long-term environmental and financial devastation this region will have to endure for the next few years as the tourists go elsewhere and the fishermen dock their boats.  It’s sad, but we will overcome this. Anyhow, many thanks for reading my little yoga blog here.  I know I’ve been a bit out of the blogging scene lately, but I really appreciate all the comments and feedback I continue to receive on both old and new posts.  I’m amazed and happy when I hear that others find useful information in something I posted long, long ago.  Just remember to keep unrolling those mats….  Namaste! Filed under: yoga

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“He who binds the breath…

April 12, 2010

He who binds the breath, binds the mind. – Svatmarama, Hatha Yoga Pradipika

Yoga works primarily with the energy in the body, through the science of pranayama, or energy-control. Prana means also ‘breath.’ Yoga teaches how, through breath-control, to still the mind and attain higher states of awareness. The higher teachings of yoga take one beyond techniques, and show the yogi, or yoga practitioner, how to direct his concentration in such a way as not only to harmonize human with divine consciousness, but to merge his consciousness in the Infinite. – Paramahansa Yogananda

Rediscover the natural breath…

Unlock the secrets to deeper practice through ujjayi breathing…

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The Yoga Habit ~ 30 Day Yoga Challenge

July 2, 2009

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“This practice becomes firmly rooted when it is cultivated skillfully and continuously for a long time.” – The Yoga Sutra of Patanjali 1:14

If you’re anything like me, then you may have noticed that the intensity of your yoga practice surges at times and then peters out at times.  You practice regularly for a week or two, and then nothing.   You move on to something else for a while and then realize one day that you haven’t seen your yoga mat for a month.  It’s a strong likelihood that this pattern of inconsistency affects not only your yoga practice, but other aspects in your life.  It’s human nature.  While this pattern is certainly natural, for many people it becomes a habit that hinders them from taking their performance and skill in any activity to the next level.  For most people, myself included, it’s not that they one day decide they don’t enjoy yoga practice, it’s just that they have not taken the necessary steps to develop the yoga habit.

Habits

“It seems, in fact, as though the second half of a man’s life is made up of nothing but the habits he has accumulated during the first half.” – Fyodor Dostoyevsky

Habits are powerful, unconscious patterns of behavior that once formed, play a large role in influencing the direction of one’s life.  To a certain degree, our lives go where our habits take us.  Our bodies, the vehicle; our habits, the chauffeur.

How to Form a Habit. Habits can be both good and bad, and interestingly enough, creating a good habit pretty much involves the same process as making a bad habit.  Without delving into neurological explanations for habit formation (check out Scott Young’s great explanation here), the bottom line is that habits form through REPETITION. The philosopher Aristotle nailed it on the head: “We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.”

To form a habit, all you need to do is repeat the activity over a period of time.  Opinions vary on the length of time it takes to form a habit, but most agree that it takes anywhere from three to six weeks of conscious, consistent, repetitive, and focused behavior to develop a new good habit.  It’s not always easy, but the end results are almost always worth it.

The Yoga Habit ~ 30 Day Yoga Challenge

If you want to consistently enjoy the benefits of yoga, then you need to take the steps necessary to make it a habit.  One of the best ways to develop the yoga habit is to commit to a 30 day yoga challenge.  

30 Day Yoga Challenge.   The heart of the 30 day challenge is commitment.  It means making a promise to yourself and following through on it.   It means banishing from your life all your old wimpy excuses for failure.  It means promising to practice for a certain amount of time each day and just doing it.  If you commit to 15 minutes a day, then you practice for 15 minutes every day.  If you commit to an hour each day, then you practice for an hour.  Don’t set unrealistic expectations, but commit to a goal that pushes you.  Whatever you commit to, do it for 30 days and you will drastically improve your chances of turning your yoga practice into a habit.

Here are a few suggestions for succeeding in creating a yoga habit.

1.  Make yourself accountable. Another aspect of commitment is accountability.  Write down your goal and/or tell someone about your plans.    Memorializing the commitment on paper or telling a friend helps set it deep into your mind that you will practice yoga for 30 days in a row.  Make yourself accountable to prove that you can do anything you set your mind to.

2.  Prioritize your life. If a 30 day yoga challenge is something you want to commit to, then make it a priority.   Use these 30 days to simplify and streamline your life.  Examine your current daily routine and activities and determine what really needs to stay and what needs to get the axe.   Maybe that means watching less TV or cutting back on social web surfing so you have time to dedicate to your practice.  Most people have plenty of time, they just don’t use it well.  Depending on how high the yoga challenge ranks in your priorities, you may also decide to temporarily give up otherwise worthwhile activities to create the necessary time.  Chances are if you cut something out of your life, you won’t even notice it’s gone in a month.

3.  Set a time and have a practice plan. A lot of our daily routine, i.e. when, where, and how we do things, is determined by our habits.  Since you’re trying to make yoga a habit, figure out the best time in the day and place for you to get on your yoga mat.  Morning or night doesn’t matter so much as picking a time and then sticking to it as best as possible.   Maybe there are certain yoga classes you want to attend.  Plan for it.  Remember, you’re trying to form a habit, and consistency will help with that.  Not many people can make it to the yoga studio for 30 days in a row, so you will also have a chance to work on your home practice.  For many people,  myself included, home practice is the only option available.  My advice is to go to bed a little earlier so you can practice in the quiet of the morning before the world wakes up.  However, when setting your schedule, also allow for some flexibility.  Life would be boring if there weren’t any surprises.  If you know your regular practice time won’t work one day,  or something unexpected pops up, have a backup plan in place already so you’re not tempted to skip a day.

4.  Educate yourself. This is also a very important step in maintaining your motivation throughout the 30 day yoga challenge.  Spend some time at the bookstore or library and browse through the yoga section.   If you see a book that interests you, buy it; you’ll probably never be more deserving of a purchase for yourself.   Throughout the month, turn to your yoga library and other yoga-related magazines, DVDs, and websites to increase your understanding of whatever aspect of yoga interests you, be it asana sequences, philosophy, history, whatever.

Here are a few good places to start:

5.  Write about it. Keep track of your 30 day yoga challenge by writing about it in your journal or blog.  You may even consider following this 30 day yoga journey designed by Florian Yoga Companion.  If nothing else, at least have a calendar to mark off each day that you practice.  Nobody wants to have an empty square on their 30 day yoga challenge calendar:) If you do  decide to write about your 30 day yoga challenge, let us know so we can cheer you on!

Just Do It!

Completing your own 30 day yoga challenge will require discipline, commitment, focus, and sacrifice.  It won’t guarantee that you have a yoga habit for life – you can fall out of good habits just as easily as you fall into bad ones – but it will be a step in the right direction.   So take the leap, start a 30 day yoga challenge, and enjoy the journey of a daily yoga habit.

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